Why Use Them?
Sex toys can be used for many reasons, for solo masturbation, extra fun with your partner, heightened orgasms… The list goes on. If you don’t have one, this article should help to give you some ideas on what is out there, and what is best for you. Most of the toys within the article can be brought off Amazon for a lot cheaper than from the sex stores, so its good to make sure you’re getting the best price for your money.
Male Sex Toys for Masturbation
Toys regarding anal play are further down in the article. However, there are other toys men can use besides anal toys. There are toys for your penis, and there should be no shame carried in buying one. Fleshlight’s are a main one for solo masturbation as a male, and for edging.
There’s all types of fleshlights, to give different sensations. For example, you can get one which creates a blowjob sensation, and you can get vaginal and anal fleshlights. In a step by step guide to find a better fleshlight for you, the only two fleshlights that they would not recommend are the Original and Super Tight sleeves.
One of the most popular fleshlights is the Pink Lady Stamina Texture Discrete Masturbator. This toy varies in price across different sex toy stores, however Amazon currently has it on its website for a fantastic £36.30, unlike the £59.99 price for the exact same one on Love Honey.
A ‘blowjob experience’ fleshlight would be one like this, the Fleshlight Turbo Thrust Texture Copper Discrete Blowjob-Masturbator off Amazon for £36.30.
Female Sex Toys for Masturbation
Women need to have the right kind of clitoral and mental stimulation to achieve orgasm. Sex toys can aid the right assistance needed to achieve a orgasm, or a heightened orgasm.
The bullet is a great starting point for sex toy virgins (both male and female). The one below is from Ann Summers for £10. This bullet is waterproof, and because the metal bullets are easier to clean, this makes for a perfect first sex toy. Bullets can range in price, but they’re usually between £5-£20.
Every woman should own a dildo. This Crystal Jelly Vibrator is a battery charged dildo, but even if the batteries don’t work, the dildo itself is still good – especially for the price of £25 from Ann Summers. The twist base allows you to turn up the intensity as the ticklers send vibrations directly to the clitoris.
For intense clitoral stimulation, the wands are the best. This Lilo Smart Wand, from Ann Summers for £130 can be bought for cheaper, smaller and less intense. If you think this toy would be too much for you, you can always buy a smaller wand for a cheaper price off Amazon. Most of the top of the range vibrators are quite pricey. The product is very durable and the charge lasts a long time, so a lot of fun is to be had with this toy!
Bum Fun (Unisex)
For bum fun beginners, the vibrating bullet can also be used for experimenting before moving forward to something a bit more intense. Butt plugs are also a good step into anal play, after using a bullet.
The Nexus Revo Slim Rechargeable Rotating Prostate Massager has six vibration patterns and two rotating shaft speeds. The silicone shaft has 3.5 insertable inches going down to a thinner neck for maximum comfort. This massager is also waterproof, rechargeable, and has a wireless remote control with a range of fifteen metres. It can be bought off Ann Summers for £150, or off Amazon for £82.91.
There is also a similar **CHEAPER VERSION** called the Hard Drive Vibrating Prostate Massager on Ann Summers for £30.
Couples Sex Toys
If you both haven’t used toys before, the Intro to Toys Set from Ann Summers for £25 is a great place to start. You can get similar sets across different websites, but this 5 piece set contains a multi-speed tapered vibrator, a 7 speed bullet, finger sleeve, cock ring sleeve and water-based lubricant. Perfect for beginners wanting to try out a bit of something new with their loved one!
For the more experimental couples, Lovense Lush 2 App Controlled Rechargeable Love Egg Vibrator, could be one to add to your list if you don’t have it already. If you fancy spicing things up outside of the bedroom, getting ever more popular, is the app controlled love eggs. They can be bought from Love Honey, for £139.99.
For any information on BDSM, there is an article in relation to BDSM and Safe Practice here.